ABOUT THE
BLOGGER
On November 19, 1983, Maria Filomena Baldaria Oneza got
married to Elmer Binaluyo Apolinario through church rites at San Francisco de
Asis Parish Church in Brgy. Rayap, Binangonan, Rizal. They begot 7 children
namely; Christian (that’s me), Chi-Chester, Catherine, Elmer Jr., Chuck Collin’s,
Chambers and Chyrus.
My family is living in ISLA NG TALIM a small island located
somewhere at the middle of Laguna De Bay. The main source of income in the
island is of course fishing. As the day started, my parents also begin with
their daily routine. My Nanay is a fish dealer; she goes back and forth to
Calamba, Laguna everyday to sell fish at the Market. My Tatay helps my Nanay
collating the catch from fishermen. He is also a fish pen caretaker.
Accordingly, I was born normal and healthy through spontaneous
delivery. However, after my first birthday, I suffered severe high fever. They rushed
me to the Hospital but it’s too late, I was diagnosed of Poliomyelitis, weakening
the muscles, affecting the bones of my feet and arms. And soon I was not been
able to walk. I can only move my eyes and it’s hard for me to say a word. I am
bed ridden for several months.
My parents brought me to several faith healers, hoping that I
will recover the unexpected event. By the power of Prayer, Massage and Touch
Therapy it helps me regain at least a little bit of physical activity. I had moved
my arms, my head and was able to sit. Sadly, it did not bring back my walking ability;
however, these are enough reason to thank GOD.
Growing up, is really hard for me. I am wandering and asking
why I was putted in this kind of situation. I wanted to play, run as the normal
child does but I can’t. I diverted my attention to board games though I wanted
to try different things especially when I get bored. Realizing that I am different from other
people make me cry.
My parents send me to school. For the first time, I saw
children of my age. I am quite shy that time, gaining friends is not easy for
me. My classmates were very curious about me. Seems, this is their only
encounter with a child like me. A lots of question, why, why and why that
happened to you, asking repeatedly. And several times I found myself tired
answering the question.
Years come, hence the time for facing reality, to conquer my
fear and set aside the doubt and the self pettiness I feel inside. The moment
to overcome the shyness, learn how to deal with people and accept criticisms
positively. I develop my skills and talent in singing. I also play guitar, had
tried playing keyboard. I incredibly find myself hook to music. It gives me
peace of mind. I do write poems and stories of love, adventure, and friendship.
I even try to write a story of tragedy.
Throughout the years, I learned to appreciate the life that
GOD given to me. With the help of my family especially Nanay and Tatay,
cousins, peers, relatives and friends I coped up and fought to survive. I want
to thank these people who accept me as I am. Despite of having physical disability,
I feel normal like anyone else because they treat me in the way I deserve.
As my dreams are getting closer I will not have any
hesitation to say THANK YOU GUYS for being part of me. A LOT OF YOU GUYS
contributed on my well being. I will be proud to SHARE THE BLESSINGS that will
come a long my path TO ALL OF YOU. I will also never forget ISLA NG TALIM, the
place where I was born, the place where I mold myself, the island which comfort
my sadness and all of my unhappy moments. And the island witness all of my
failures and success, my up’s and down’s. ISLA NG TALIM is my shelter and I will
treasure the habitat for lifetime.
CHRISTIAN ONEZA
APOLINARIO
Sitio Banaba, Brgy. Rayap (ISLA NG TALIM)
Binangonan, Rizal
This blogspot was created for those TALIMEÑOS, please
feel free to share anything exciting, different, about ISLA NG TALIM:TALIMA SA
LAWA. Please help me expand the page. Tell your life, thoughts, and ideas. Be proud
that we are TUBONG TALIM.
